Constant competitions

I find it very hard to spend time with overly competitive people.... you know the kind that HAS to be best in absolutely everything, wheter it be writing, sports, music or just card games or even video games.... I mean, come on.... it's like their whole persona depends on being superior or else their egos get shattered. It must be very exhausting not to be able to just ENJOY the moment without feeling like it is a competition.... in the end, what's to win? Your own peace of mind?? Sad. Sad, indeed.